Sex of the baby

A month from tomorrow we will find out if we are having a boy or girl. Oh to be a naive, excited pregnant mother. First I'm scared that I will get too attached when I find out what it is. I'm scared to get attached. Second, will it be easier if it's a girl since Jack was a boy? Or will we want a boy since we lost the boy we wanted so desperately. I obviously just want a healthy baby that is ALIVE that I can bring home to love. But it's just one more step in this pregnancy that makes it that much harder.